A couple of years ago, J sweetly told me that he's going to live with us forever.
Awww, isn't that cute?
Well, being the realist that I am, I didn't really think so, and I let him know it. I quickly responded with a shake of my head while I said, "No, that's not the goal, J. That's not the goal."
My ultimate goal as a parent: To raise God-adoring, Jesus-believing, people-loving, emotionally stable, self-supporting, independent children.
That's quite the lofty goal...downright overwhelming and seemingly impossible at times, in fact. There's no way magic, overnight way to accomplish such a goal. Instead this is a process, a day by day, moment by moment kind of thing.
Along with all of the basic things like love, stability, and structure, kids these days need to learn so much more from their parents than even my generation did.
You know, the really important things in today's world that I couldn't have even imagined needing to know as a child like operating a smartphone or keeping up with hundreds of "friends" on the latest social networking site.
That's why I occasionally carve out some time to introduce J and E to some modern life skills and concepts.
Our recent lesson: Practicing the apparently necessary duckface profile picture
Next lesson: How to take a duckface profile picture all by yourself.