Friday, February 11, 2011

Energy to Burn


We offered a cabin fevered girl a change of scenery for a night, and she gladly accepted. 

There still was plenty of energy to burn despite our time at an indoor playground, so after a quick stop at the store, we headed home for more late night fun.

And fun it was...















Props to Keeslermom for leaving the comment with the great idea. (Ideas are always appreciated!)  I am so blessed to have a fun, experienced mommy friend!  Just like she said, "clean kids, clean floor."  She left out that my house will likely smell like a barber shop for at least the next week, but I'll forgive her this time!

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Nothing Says Love Like...

an early Valentine's Day gift.

This thoughtful present was way too exciting to hold onto for five more days, so J eagerly handed me a shiny gift bag tonight.


Upon taking a peak inside, I found this...


What I've always wanted!

I could hardly contain my overwhelming excitement.
(or my sweaty, matted down hair after just completing a run.  My husband did suggest at least brushing 
 it before he snapped this picture.  Now that's love!)


I wasn't the only one pumped (J's word, not mine) about the new kitchen gadget.  Click here if you're not quite sure why a four-year-old would want an egg cracker.

The gift that he and E gave me had him so pumped that we had to try it out...now.


Just as J promised, it's easy to use, no messy hands, and

no shell fragments in the food.



The cookies, complete with edible marker art, were just an added bonus. 






My husband's humor
and
my children's enthusiasm
 make loving this bunch just so






Sunday, February 6, 2011

Hurt Feelings

Much to my dancing beauty’s dismay, I finally made the effort to select a different song after hearing I Gotta Feeling and the Power Rangers theme song back-to-back for the fifth time. My little princess exited the dance floor (my room) screaming. She continued on with her dramatic crying and tantrum for at least five minutes before appearing at my bathroom door with a pouty lip, teary eyes, and her hands placed on her hips.


E: Mommy, you say you’re sorry!

Me: Why?

E: ‘Cause you hurt my feelings.

Me: Why? What did I do?

E: Because you turned on Lady Gaga and I need Power Rangers.

Me:  (Insert simultaneous sigh and eye roll here.)

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Learning Via Football

Within the past couple of months, J has grown quite fond of both basketball and football. Well, quite fond doesn’t even begin to explain it. When he gets into something, his entire existence revolves around that something until the next big thing comes along. We’ve been down this road before…The Wiggles, Thomas the Train, elephants, Diego, Moses, superheroes, insects, sharks, reptiles, natural disasters, storm chasing. Although he doesn’t completely abandon his object(s) of affection when he moves on to the next infatuation, his prior interests are pushed to the back burner, at least temporarily.


This current obsession has my husband’s heart overflowing with pride. The “pitter-patter” is nearly audible. I would say J & Steve have always had a pretty strong father-son relationship, but J's new love for football has solidified things. It’s not only a shared interest, but an interest that is Steve’s primary love language. Didn’t you know that Interest in Sports was added to the list, so the new book is now titled The 6 Love Languages?

J is so into these two sports that he awakes every morning asking the final score of the previous night’s game that he watched in between quarters of his own imaginary games. He asks us repeatedly who our favorite teams are and who we think should win his games. He’s emotionally invested, as evidenced by the tears when the Steelers defeated his 2nd favorite team, the Jets, to get into the Super Bowl. During his breakdown, he declared, “The Steelers are now my 32nd favorite team in the NFL.” It wasn’t until this football frenzy that I learned there are 32 NFL teams. Look out Trivial Pursuit.

So what do we do when our son is so passionate about something? We could just let him do his thing in his own little world, but what fun would that be? Instead, we choose the other extreme and provide him with (many, many, many) resources to keep that fire burning. Indulgent, indeed, but we just can’t refrain. Plus, we try to incorporate a few educational twists (sometimes).

How can NFL football be educational and beneficial, you ask? Besides the obvious physical activity that it requires to be played in our home, lessons about teamwork, strategy, rules and penalties for breaking these rules can be learned. We even took it a step further to explore a little geography.


 

Our goal in mapping out the team locations was to find out which team was closest to our city.

As a timely added bonus, my aunt sent me a link to this USA puzzle.  J loves doing this, and each state that appears he is sure to tell me the NFL team(s) that play there.

What started out as a brief math lesson,



turned out to be a 32 team bracket with the winners determined by math problems. 
Any guesses on the winner of J’s Super Bowl?

Here’s a hint…



While J was crying (for 20 minutes!) about the Seahawks losing in the first round (how am I supposed to remember the order in which he has his favorite teams ranked?), E decided, “ I need a pwoject, too.”





Her winners were determined by chance as she reinforced her counting skills. Because of her age-appropriate attention span, she lasted about nine games and her bracket ended up like this…



I was expecting J to take a few days to work through his math problems and remove the teams one by one





in order to rightfully declare the Philadelphia Eagles his Super Bowl champs,







but after diligently working for an hour, he was begging to do it all over again.

Preparing 31 football math scenarios takes time and effort, so I better get going. Geesh, homeschooling at the preschool level is more work than I thought!

J may not know a single nursery rhyme, but he can tell you that neither the New York Giants nor the New York Jets play home games in the state of New York. I don’t recall that being on the kindergarten readiness checklist, so I guess most would say we’re taking a more unconventional route with the pre-K learning. Really though, what’s there to know about Old Mother Hubbard anyway?

Friday, February 4, 2011

Rwanda

We’ve had the great blessing of following a couple of adoption journeys from beginning to end. Until witnessing this firsthand, I had no idea what the process entailed. I still don’t know all of the details, but as I understand it, the first part of the adoption process goes a little something like this: paperwork, waiting, praying, paperwork, waiting, praying, paperwork, waiting, praying and more paperwork and more waiting and more praying. After months or years, then the ball really gets rolling with the (sometimes international) travel, the long-awaited meeting day, probably more paperwork, and eventually the newly united family settles in back home to begin living life together. And that’s when the adoption journey truly gets started.


There are plenty of aspects about children being placed with a loving forever family that leave me in awe, but if I had to pick the single most amazing thing about adoption as I’ve seen it, it would be this: Upon finding out how physically, emotionally, financially, and mentally straining the process is, the couples who were called to adopt follow through with it anyway. Pure l.o.v.e. Absolutely admirable!

Meet one such courageous family. The dear H family is in the “paperwork, waiting, praying” stage of adopting a child from Rwanda. I know M is a tough one (she survived Black Friday shopping with us last year…that’s tough!) but any prayers are surely welcomed. Follow along with the H's here. If you are so inclined, you can even support their cause by ordering a shirt that they personally designed.

IMG_9657.jpg image by familybuiltonfaith
(Great design!  For a closer look at the graphic/available colors or to order, check it out on their blog.)

I was shocked and a little heavy hearted by the huge need for adoption that was revealed by my brief internet research. Don’t just take my word for it, however. Take a moment to Google “worldwide orphan statistics” and you’ll find out what a worthy cause this is.

A & M & L & A – Admirable you are! May God bless you with abundant patience, peace, courage, strength, and joy. AMEN!

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Pitchman

It was around 11:30 pm when J ambled out into the living room where we were still awake watching TV. Earlier that day, he felt warmer than usual and took a late afternoon nap, so we weren’t entirely surprised by his late night appearance. Too lazy to get up and tuck him back in, I noted that he seemingly was afebrile and offered a place by me on the couch. Steve turned the channel to one with a string of superhero cartoons just waiting to be viewed.


There’s something about Spiderman that makes me pretty sleepy, so within minutes I was out cold. So out, that I awoke on the couch seven hours later to find the TV off and J in his own bed. I just assumed that was Steve’s doing.

While I was getting ready for church, Steve entered the bathroom saying, “I think J watched his first infomercial last night.”

With an expression of curiosity, I asked, “Why? What time did you put him to bed?”

Steve replied, “I didn’t. I fell asleep right after he woke up last night. I’ll let him tell you about it.”

We both know that as long as the TV is on, J will not be sleeping. Nobody knows how long our night owl was awake, but I do know that as soon as I shut the car door and latched my seatbelt (I am always the last person in the vehicle on Sunday mornings. Always.), the little pitchman began in a very enthusiastic manner.

“Mom, I have the perfect Valentine’s gift for you. It’s called the EZ Cracker. You put an egg in it, and you squeeze this thing and it doesn’t get on everything. No messy hands, countertop, or stove! The shells don’t get into it either, like in muffins. It’s so easy to use. You can get two for the low price of $9.99. But you have to be 18 years or older to order. Doesn’t that sound awesome?”

EZ Egg Cracker

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-CB2MVZgt5Y

So, how many are you going to order?

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

It's Not What You Think

After months of discomfort and sub-par attempts at home treatment and self-diagnoses, I finally decided to seek help for my nagging running injuries. Apparently, I have the procrastinating personality that just does better with the necessary exercises and stretches knowing that I have someone to follow-up with. Less than two weeks later, I’m feeling a million times better and regretting not doing this sooner.
Part of the treatment included some very intense stretching. The kind of hurt-so-good stretching that I would never be able to do on my own. So after making my kids sit quietly for an hour during my initial appointment (they both had an iPod Touch, so don’t be feeling too bad for them), I decided to reward their outstanding behavior by letting them choose snacks at the grocery store.

As we were getting out of the vehicle in the store’s parking lot, our simple and innocent exchange of words had me looking in all directions to see if anyone was within earshot and silently praying that J, the boy who doesn't forget a thing, would not repeat this at Sunday school.

Me: Oh (in a pleasurable moan kind of way), that felt SO good.

J: What did, mommy?

Me: Oh, that guy.

It’s only a matter of time before this comes back to haunt me.